The Long Way is the Shortcut: Why True Progress Requires Patience
In my ongoing series, "Navigating the Uncharted: Lessons from My Job Search Journey," I continue with the lessons learned from my experience. We've explored the initial shock of the job search, the crucible of growth found in adversity, and the enduring impact of that experience. Now, we turn our attention to a powerful truth that often runs counter to popular culture: the long way is the shortcut, because the shortcut never gets you there.
This statement reveals a profound wisdom: genuine, sustainable success and deep, meaningful impact are rarely achieved through expediency. Shortcuts, by their very nature, bypass the essential processes of learning, building, and refining. They might offer temporary gains, but they inevitably lead to superficial results, missed foundational lessons, and ultimately, a failure to reach the desired destination or to sustain it if reached.
Consider this principle across various facets of life and leadership:
In Your Career and Work: The "shortcut" might tempt you to cut corners on a project, avoid difficult feedback, or seek a rapid promotion without truly mastering your current role. The "long way" involves meticulously developing skills, building genuine relationships, taking ownership of mistakes, and consistently delivering high-quality work. While the latter might seem slower, it builds a robust foundation of competence and trust that leads to lasting career progression and meaningful impact. The shortcut, in contrast, often leads to exposure, burnout, or stagnation.
In Family and Friendships: In relationships, you might desire to avoid honest conversations, neglect consistent effort, or seek immediate gratification without investing in mutual understanding and support. This can manifest in a desire to "win" an argument, teaching yourself that you are in a relationship where there must be both a “winner” and a "loser." The "long way" is showing up consistently, practicing active listening, offering unconditional support, and honestly navigating conflicts with patience and empathy. This deliberate effort builds unbreakable bonds and deep trust that no quick fix can replicate.
In Community Building: Here, "community" refers to the group of people with whom you share life experiences. Here, a "shortcut" impact might involve grand, superficial gestures and promises without genuine engagement, or implementing solutions without understanding root causes and downstream effects. The "long way" means patiently listening to the needs of those in your care, building consensus where reasonable, fostering buy-in for initiatives, and showing commitment to sustained effort over years, even decades. This slower, more deliberate approach creates a truly resilient and empowered cohort.
In Personal Growth: You might be seeking quick self-help fads or avoiding introspection. It could also be the use of anabolic steroids to quicken visible muscle gain. The "long way" is the disciplined practice of self-awareness, confronting uncomfortable truths, consistently working on your weaknesses, and embracing continuous learning and persistent work. This arduous journey leads to genuine character development and a profound understanding of self.
Why the Long Way is the True Shortcut
The "long way" is the shortcut because it:
Builds Foundational Strength: It ensures you acquire the necessary skills, knowledge, tenacity, and character traits that are indispensable for sustained success.
Cultivates Resilience: Navigating challenges, the "long way" develops the grit and adaptability needed to overcome inevitable future obstacles.
Fosters Authenticity and Trust: People recognize and value genuine effort and integrity. The long way builds credibility that shortcuts can never achieve.
Leads to Deeper Understanding: True mastery comes from grappling with complexities, not from skimming the surface.
Ensures Sustainability: What is built slowly and deliberately tends to last. Shortcuts often lead to fragile structures that collapse under pressure.
As leaders, it is our responsibility to embody this principle and instill it in those we care for and lead. We must resist the pervasive cultural pressure for instant gratification and instead champion the value of diligent, patient, and thorough work. By embracing the "long way," we not only achieve our goals more effectively but also build stronger teams, deeper relationships, and a more resilient foundation for future success. It is the only path that truly gets us there.
