The True North of Leadership: Are Your Actions Telling the Right Story?
In the demanding world of Client Success and Information Systems, we often operate under the conviction that our Strategic Action Plan or our KPI dashboard defines our success. We push our teams to do more, implement faster, and achieve higher numbers. But what if the most powerful force shaping your leadership legacy—and the loyalty of your team—isn’t what you do, but something far more foundational? Are you leading your organization based on what you love more than what you know?
The Unseen Anchor of Leadership
The technical marketplace is a crucible of urgency. Whether rolling out a complex digital transformation initiative or fighting to preserve a critical client relationship, the pressure to execute is immense. We rightfully focus on metrics, governance, and effective workflow. Yet, for leaders operating at the VP and C-Suite levels in SMB and mid-market companies, the difference between transactional management and transformative leadership often comes down to an internal, often neglected quality.
Centuries ago, Augustine Aurelius distilled a profound truth about human character that holds immense resonance for today’s executive:
“We are shaped most by what we think, not by what we do, but by what we love. For when we ask whether somebody is a good person, we are not asking what he believes or hopes for, but what he loves.” (Augustine Aurelius, De Trinitate, Book IX)
This statement is not merely philosophical; it is a critical strategic insight. In the context of leadership, what you love—what you value, prioritize, and genuinely care about—serves as the unseen anchor that determines your decisions, your relational style, and the ultimate health of your organization.
The Strategic Alignment of Affection
For the leader in Client Success (CSM) or Information Systems (IS/IT), what does it mean to be judged by what you love?
1. The Love of the Mission Over the Method
Many experienced technical leaders know they should prioritize the client experience or system reliability. But if your deepest affection is rooted in the perfection of the method (e.g., maintaining rigid legacy processes, proving the technical superiority of a chosen stack, or protecting a departmental budget), your leadership will be rigid.
Challenge for You: When facing a critical decision—be it a system overhaul or a client escalation—where does your attention land first? On preserving your operational comfort, or on the success of the outcome for the organization and the client? Your genuine love for the mission (delivering value, enabling the business, upholding integrity) must supersede your attachment to the process.
2. The Love of People Over Productivity
In technology, it is easy to view engineers, CSMs, and specialists as highly effective resources to be managed for optimal output. While performance is non-negotiable, a leader whose core love is the well-being and development of the individual will naturally inspire profound commitment.
This is not a soft approach; it is strategic wisdom. When you genuinely love to see your people grow and succeed, you invest time in mentoring, you offer constructive correction, and you advocate for their future. This leadership style is felt—it creates loyalty, reduces costly churn in specialized roles, and fosters a culture of mutual respect where people give their best, not just their obligated minimum.
3. The Love of Clarity Over Control
For leaders operating at the top of an organization, the temptation to hoard information and maintain tight control is a constant challenge. However, true strength lies in a love for Clarity—the commitment to transparent, unambiguous communication, even when the news is difficult.
When your primary desire is to maintain Control, you create bottlenecks and breed suspicion. When your true love is for Clarity, you empower your seasoned individual contributors and managers with the context they need to make intelligent, localized decisions. You trust the individuals you hired and align your team to the strategic intent of the organization, freeing your own time for higher-level thinking and external engagement.
The Call to Examine Your Heart’s Motives
The complexity of the SMB and mid-market landscape demands leaders who are not only competent in action but sound in character. Your success is not merely a reflection of the latest quarterly numbers, but a reflection of the deep-seated values you carry into every meeting, negotiation, and one-on-one conversation.
As you step into your next strategic challenge, take a moment to pause and consider the truth of Augustine’s words. Ask yourself: What does my leadership truly love?
The answer will be clearly demonstrated not through your email signature or your formal job description, but through the non-verbal cues your team reads, the decisions you make under pressure, and the loyalty you command when times are difficult. Lead with strategic affection, and watch your organization thrive.
