Truth's Ascent: Navigating the 3 Stages of Change
We are now well into the first quarter of 2026. By now, the polished slides of your annual kickoff have met the messy reality of daily operations. Are the "truths" you championed in January currently being embraced—or are they quietly being met with the friction of the status quo?
The transition from February to March is often the "make or break" window for digital transformation. It is the season where the novelty wears off and the discipline of leadership begins. If you find your initiatives facing headwinds, it may not be a sign of failure, but rather a sign that your strategy is moving through a predictable, necessary gauntlet.
There is a profound framework for this experience, famously articulated by the philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer in his preface to The World as Will and Representation (1818):
"All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently opposed. Third, it is accepted as self-evident."
For the C-suite leader, VP, or Principal Engineer, these stages aren't just philosophical observations; they are the strategic milestones of any significant change management initiative.
Stage One: The Ridicule of the Unfamiliar
In the fast-paced world of tech and Client Success, new truths often arrive looking like "extra work" or "unnecessary pivots." When you suggest a radical simplification of your tech stack or a shift in how you measure client health, the first response is often a dismissive laugh or a sarcastic comment in the hallway.
As a leader, your role here is not to take offense, but to practice high emotional IQ. Recognize that ridicule is often a mask for a lack of understanding or a fear of the unknown. Can you remain a steady, inquisitive force when your vision is being minimized during these late-winter months?
Stage Two: The Friction of Opposition
As your "truth" gains traction and begins to move from theory to implementation—the phase many of us find ourselves in right now—the opposition often turns from dismissive to defensive. This is the stage of "violent opposition"—not in a physical sense, but through bureaucratic roadblocks, passive-aggressive compliance, or vocal dissent.
In thermodynamics, we know that friction generates heat. In leadership, this heat is often a sign that you are finally touching the core of the problem. It is here that the biblical principle of "speaking the truth in love" (Ephesians 4:15) becomes a strategic imperative. Can you hold the line with authority and compassion, addressing the fear behind the opposition without compromising the integrity of the mission?
Stage Three: The Quiet Power of the Self-Evident
The most rewarding moment for a senior leader is the day the "radical idea" becomes "the way we’ve always done it." The opposition fades, the ridicule is forgotten, and the new system becomes the bedrock of your operational excellence.
However, the trap for the seasoned leader at this stage is pride. When the truth becomes self-evident, the focus should shift back to the team’s success. Your goal was never personal vindication; it was the flourishing of the people and the systems in your care. The goal of a transformative leader isn't to be proven right; it’s to ensure the right path becomes the common path.
Reflective Leadership Audit: The Q1 Check-in
As you evaluate your 2026 strategic initiatives this week, ask yourself:
Where am I in the cycle? Are you currently facing the "ridicule" of a new idea, or are you in the thick of February "opposition"? Identifying the stage helps you calibrate your emotional response.
How do I handle dissent? When a peer or direct report opposes a necessary truth, do you view them as an enemy to be defeated, or a partner who hasn't yet seen the self-evident conclusion?
Is my truth actually true? Before pushing through opposition, have you done the quiet work of self-examination? Does your plan align with the objective reality of your data and the well-being of your team?
Leading through these stages requires a rare blend of iron-clad conviction and humble empathy. By understanding this progression, you can lead your organization through the friction of today into the self-evident successes of tomorrow.
